Three Techniques To Get My Ex Back

Every adult has lost a love to a breakup. Most advice you find simply tells you to move on with your life.

What if you don't want to be a victim? What if you are truly in love with your ex and are willing to fight to get them back? What if moving on means more pain than you are willing to bear?

Less than 10 percent of relationships can't be saved. The deck is stacked in your favor, if you are willing to do this right. This is merely a stumbling block to living the rest of your life together with your ex. The following tips will help you to get back my ex.

You need to understand what caused your ex to leave. There may have been a final straw, an argument, a fight. Chances are this is not the underlying cause. It is usually a combination of things over time that caused the rift. You are partially to blame. Both of you deserve some of the blame.

The majority of the time the problem is not what you did, but rather an attitude displayed. Are you over critical? Are you too controlling? Are you guilty of not listening? Did you take your ex for granted? Do you regularly disrespect them or what they say? Hopefully, you get what I am driving at.

You can say you're sorry for an individual action, however this will not have the same effect of apologizing for the way you made your ex feel.

Take this example. Would your ex be more upset that they think you have disrespected them, or that you were flirting with someone else?

You must consider their take on a situation, and see it through their eyes. Which apology would move you toward getting an ex back? I'm sorry I flirted, or I am sorry I didn't consider how you might have felt unloved by my actions? If you get this right, half the battle to get back an ex is over.

Next tip, be strong. This has nothing to do with the muscle tone. People are attracted to strong minds. Do not be needy. Although it may work very short term, no one wants someone who can't stand on their own two feet. We are not much different than animals when it comes to survival of the fittest. As a species, we are naturally attracted to people with a strong character. Not someone who is whiny, clingy and needy. We want a mate who can take care of themselves.

Women, are you attracted to a wimp, or someone who is confident in themselves? Do any of you gentlemen want a wife and mother of your child that can't stand up for themselves? Our brains have been hard wired for this. Nothing could make you more attractive to your ex than them believing you don't need them.

Final tip, jealousy will not work. Trying this ploy will practically guarantee you WILL NOT get back your ex. This is almost always very transparent, and screams that you are desperate (see needy above). Your ex will be happy you are now someone else's problem.