Create A Spicer Sex Life

Many couples feel as though after the initial excitement and passion in a relationship dies down that sex can no longer be exciting. This is so far from the truth but unfortunately a lot of couples buy into this idea and they have a relationship that does not give them the spicy sex life they have always dreamt about. It doesn't matter how long you have been together, you can always have a very spicy sex life, you just have to be willing to give it some time and effort to keep it hot!

The best thing you can do when you want to spice things up and keep them hot is to talk about sex. Talk about what you want, ask your partner what they want, and then go from there. A couple that is able to talk candidly about sex is more likely to have the kind of sex they want than the couple that is unable for any reason to talk about it. If you are close enough to be having sex there is no reason that you should not be able to talk about it.

The next thing you should do is create a list, either on paper or in your mind, of all of the things that you would both like to try. Vow to try at least one to two of these things each month. This will keep you looking forward to your next sexual encounter and will also put some of the thrill and excitement back into the mix as you never know what is going to happen.

Get a book. There are a lot of great compilations out there of exciting sexual positions for you to try. Why not decide that you will try one new position a month? You can take turns picking a position and you can decide that you will keep working at it until you get it just right! This can be a lot of fun, because again you have the excitement factor working for you.

Another thing you can do is get a book of sexy stories and take turns reading them to one another. This can be a new and exciting form of foreplay that will spice things up and just get you both hot for one another again. The same goes for watching pornography together.

This can be a lot of fun and it may lead into other fun activities such as role playing! Once you open the doors to this sort of fun there is no limit to the fun and excitement that you can bring into the bedroom. Don't take all of this too seriously, give yourselves permission to laugh at things when you want to, this will just add to the fun and closeness that you develop as a result of trying new things.